I stand so brilliantly corrected…
And this is why hearing a diversity of opinions is the best way to go.Just got a comment on a recent post from a very astute 37days reader named AnnMarie –
"I just started reading your blog and mostly love it. But this post has bugged me since I read it last week. As the Mom of a 3 year old, I beg you NOT to do this. If my child was throwing a fit in the store and someone walked up and rewarded her for crying and screaming, I would be terribly annoyed. Stickers (bubbles, candy, whatever the treat is) should be a reward for GOOD behavior, not for bad behavior. My child would probably end up screaming even more loudly, because I would promptly take the item away. I do not give my child fun things when she’s throwing a fit and I will not let strangers do so either. (Nor grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc.) Sorry, but this one isn’t right; it just encourages the kid to throw a fit the next time they are in the store in hopes of more goodies. How about giving the stickers to children who are behaving appropriately at the store? How come the good kids are the ones left out of the good stuff? :)"