What does freedom really feel like?

Pentagon_flag On this day of celebration in the U.S., it is too easy to take for granted the freedoms we enjoy here. Let’s pause–amidst the rambunctious grilling of soy burgers and the shopping for extra long jersey knit sky blue dorm room sheets–to list the freedoms we have.

Go ahead. I’ll wait.

Fold up that list and put it in your wallet. Pull it out the next time you get angry at the radio talk show host who’s talking trash because he disagrees with you. Freedom means opening the space for him, just as wide as the space you open for yourself. I wonder what we could create in the world if we purposefully engaged in dialogue whose intention is co-created, generative action rather than dialogue whose intention is to negate the other person, the other Party, the other religion or sexual orientation or nation?

Freedom is something Asheville resident Glen Edward Chapman knows something about, having spent 14 years on death row for a crime he didn’t commit. Getting out of jail recently after all that time? That’s freedom. You and I? We have it every day, but we just don’t know it. We need to.

The fourth of July always reminds me of a favorite quote from a favorite book, Art & Fear: "The American Revolution was not financed with matching grants from the Crown." If we want freedom, we must act. Great change doesn’t come with official endorsement. It also doesn’t come from a negative intention, but from a generative one.

(Need help figuring out how to display your flag?)

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

4 comments to " What does freedom really feel like? "
  • Thanks for this thoughtful post. Happy 4th.

  • We do take our freedom for granted, Patty. I know that I do.

    I will love to be open to conversations with and the ideas of those who intend co-creative, generative action instead of proving how right they are.

    Today, I am just glad that I am free to find and know and communicate with those who are open, and tolerant, and loving.

    I am especially grateful for all of those who died, and spoke out, and suffered so that I could be free.

    Thank you, Olivia

  • T

    I’m grateful for the freedom to call it as I see it.
    This country ranks 29th in the word as womens quality of life goes.
    I’m grateful that I can work at changing it from within this country, even if we wont ever pass the Equal Rights Amendment (remember the ERA?).

    I’m grateful to be eating leftover red velvet cake now.

  • Mina

    What freedom feels like ? – never really had a taste of it …

    Thanks,Mina

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