Day 18 :: Practice unconditional love

My_37_days Sometimes, pictures tell the story in a way that words cannot. This came in without a name attached–I’ve asked the sender to let me know who they are! I loved the photos so much. Here is what she wrote:

Jonah_145 "If I had 37 days left to live, I would capture every sweet, sweet moment with my only child. He is my life….my compass, my joy, my sometimes sorrow and stress! He has guided me, in his childhood innocence, to a place that I never knew existed. He has taught me that it doesn’t matter how clean my kitchen is, how many loads of laundry there are to do. He doesn’t care what my hair looks like or the 10 pounds I always want to lose.

He loves patiently, kindly and with abiding faith in his momma as a guide to all things good.

As in I Corinthians 12-13, ‘Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.’"

Jonah_218_bw_cropped I wonder what it would take for us to get back to the place where her son is–that place before judgment. What would practicing unconditional love (of ourselves, as much as of others) look like? As Rumi has said, "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." In our 37 days, let us practice unconditional love, like this child, our greatest teacher.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

2 comments to " Day 18 :: Practice unconditional love "
  • Jan

    What wonderful joyous faces in those pictures! And those precious little sweet feet!

  • Hi again, Patti!
    thank you for posting this, and sorry I didn’t include my name with those first round of emails. I love your blog, and can’t wait to dive into the book (:
    best,
    starr

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