we are saying thank you. (and my paean to cranberry sauce)

Old-bridge-SmallListen

with the night falling we are saying thank you
we are stopping on the bridges to bow from the railings
… we are running out of the glass rooms
with our mouths full of food to look at the sky
and say thank you
we are standing by the water thanking it
smiling by the windows looking out
in our directions

back from a series of hospitals back from a mugging
after funerals we are saying thank you
after the news of the dead
whether or not we knew them we are saying thank you

over telephones we are saying thank you
in doorways and in the backs of cars and in elevators
remembering wars and the police at the door
and the beatings on stairs we are saying thank you
in the banks we are saying thank you
in the faces of the officials and the rich
and of all who will never change
we go on saying thank you thank you

with the animals dying around us
our lost feelings we are saying thank you
with the forests falling faster than the minutes
of our lives we are saying thank you
with the words going out like cells of a brain
with the cities growing over us
we are saying thank you faster and faster
with nobody listening we are saying thank you
we are saying thank you and waving
dark though it is

-W. S. Merwin


I write a thank you note every morning. I have for 2 years now.

It has changed my life to look at the world in a constant state of thankfulness. I even look at moments of sadness and anger and loss – those moments that bring a simple "wow" to my lips – with a sense of deep thankfulness for what that moment is bringing me. It is a revolutionary act.

For me, thankfulness is a daily practice. I'm letting Thanksgiving serve as its mascot, but not its replacement.

With thanks to Lianne Raymond for pointing me to this significant poem. Let us read it aloud and sit with it this fine day. I'm starting my Thanksgiving with a walk around Low Blood Pressure Lake. Then I'll attempt to make cashew-stuffed Portabello mushrooms without the cashews that I forgot to buy. And then I will remember how very much I love cranberry sauce. And then I will remember that imperfections make us real and complex and fully human, and that we can choose the story we tell with our lives, which means we can reject the stories others try to impose on us.

With thanks for you, always. You are treasures.

Love,

Patti

(image from here. I love the quote she chose to go with this image)

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

7 comments to " we are saying thank you. (and my paean to cranberry sauce) "
  • This poem is a “wow” moment for me, so powerful and true.

    I am thankful for this day. And I am thankful for the day that I discovered that you are in the world along with me.
    I wish you and your sweet family a perfectly imperfect day of Ptak/Digh fun ! I love you, my friend.

  • Mary Ellen

    My longtime friend, Colleen Wainwright introduced me to your blog through her blog and I’m so glad she did. We’re gearing up to make 80 sack lunches for the homeless today and I’ve been looking for an appropriate message to include. Merwin’s poem is a gem and seems just right. Thanks for your gifted spirit and talent. So glad you were moved to start a blog.

  • I needed this today, Patti. Thank you. xo

  • Jan Phillips has shared this wonderful poem with her readers for 10 years. It would be difficult to ever get tired of reading it, wherever it appears.

    Wishing you, John, and your daughters a lovely day of Thanksgiving.

  • Thank you for all your words here – and sharing the words of others too — throughout the year. Happy Thanksgiving!

  • Great poem and I’m thankful for you Patti Digh!!

  • Thank u for being u. I’ve been keeping a gratitude journal for the past year and I love it and have seen Grace grow before my very eyes. I am much more awake because of that gratitude.

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