write-your-own friday.

Writeyrownfriday

How about a writing exercise every Friday, one that–over time, if you do them every Friday–will leave you with a pile of 89-cent composition books from the Piggly Wiggly full of you. Your story. Your life. Your fears and laughs and thoughts. Something to leave behind, something to re-read when we're 110 years old and living in the Tybee Island Senior Citizen Fun Hut in adjoining rooms.

So, every week for "write-your-own Friday" (an idea I must credit to Mr Brilliant who–after all–is brilliant), I'll provide a simple writing prompt. Spend just 10 minutes a day on this prompt FOR A WHOLE WEEK! A whole week on one simple thing! Ten minutes a day for seven days! Miracles will happen! Threads will be pulled.

If you'd like to make drawings or paintings instead, you go on ahead and do that, sugar. Each day, a clarification, a ten-minute meditation in color. Whatever rocks your boat rocks mine.

Each day, read what you wrote the day before, circle a "hot spot," a word or phrase that stands out to you, and write for 10 minutes on that. Get a timer, set it, write and stop. Close your notebook, make the kids' lunches, feed the pets, do the laundry, stalk Johnny Depp–all the miraculous actions of every day–and then do it again the next day: open, read, circle, write, close.

Just ten minutes a day. Lock yourself in the bathroom to do it if you can't get time alone otherwise and make hints about some kind of intestinal disorder that might cause you to do so regularly. Do not wait until you have the perfect notebook, no. Pick up a slightly used receipt and use the back if you have to. This is not about perfection, people of the earth. It is about process. Your process. No one but you.

Each assignment won't seem like much…by itself. But life is an accumulation, isn't it?

Writing prompt #1: "A house that does not have one worn, comfy chair in it is soulless."  -May Sarton

Describe the "worn, comfy chair" in your home, either present or past. Just describe it — your favorite chair — in as much detail as you can. Describe. Show. Don't tell me. Show me the chair.

Let's see where it takes us.

(photo from here)

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

9 comments to " write-your-own friday. "
  • smallbluebird

    Brilliant! A friend once asked me what my “default position” is in life. I told her it is my Morris chair in the living room of my house. Legs up on the arm, the detritus of daily activity on the floor around me (cleaned up nightly, don’t worry) the lovely vine outside the window promising daily to send tendrils through the screen. The fellow up the street built it for me. Daily I would return home from work to see beautiful quarter sawn oak pieces on my front porch that he’d leave for my approval. Oh my, guess I’ve taken the prompt and am running with it! Better go, I have so much more to write. Thanks for this great idea!

  • I LOVE this idea. Can’t wait to see what tapestry is weaved with the threads of writing and creativity. Love how it will be linked and connected.

    I’m playing!

  • Oh boy. Why does this intimidate me so much? Is it the commitment portion, the writing portion, or the revelations? Something to ponder while I’m penning my thoughts on a comfy chair.

    BTW, is there a website where I can get on the waiting list for the Tybee Island Senior Citizen Fun Hut?

    Much love,
    Carolynn

  • Lori Murray

    Geesh, you’re pulling my leg. There is no Tybee Island Senior Citizen Fun Hut! I even googled just to be sure because it sounded so “Tybee!” My new favorite adjective, by the way :-) We will have to start our own fun hut–now that’s an idea! “Today for our special activity, our very own Miss Patti will hand out Piggly Wiggly composition books….”

  • Fabulous. Just fabulous. Thanks.

  • I love those 89cent composition books! Use them all the time.

  • Laurie

    I just today (Thursday Oct. 1)was able to catch up on my emails and read about the “worn comfy chair” so I got out my notebook and started to write, words don’t usually come to me while trying to write, I am mostly a talker, but today the words came so quickly my 10 minutes were up in a flash. I attribute that to the fact that my “worn comfy chair” used to be my Grandmothers chair until she passed. Your writing prompt #1 has inspired me in a way like never before. Such emotion coming out of me on paper. Wow who knew.

    Thanks so much Patti, its the small things in life, right?

  • Janet Booth

    i got some 15 cent composition books from walmart!!!

  • What a brilliant idea! I’ll have to give this a go. I bet it will open up the writer in me! Thanks for the inspiration.

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