Celebrate alphabetical order (and win a book of poetry)


37days – 50th Birthday Year Giveaway #3: The story of the poems from Patti Digh on Vimeo.

Stars I think about, if I could fly, I could reach in a few old-fashioned days. But physicists’ stars I use as buttons, buttoning up curtains of emptiness. If I stretch my arms next to the rest of myself and wonder where my fingers are—that is all the space I need. –Willem de Kooning

Sometimes the simple beauty of alphabetical order provides for us.

In a large room of tables draped in black, and women authors, and piles of books, I once happened to sit beside the woman I needed to, simply because her last name is Davis and mine is Digh.

This video tells a little of that story, but not the whole story.

The event I’m describing was lovely—beautifully done and such a powerful gathering of women writers from the Low Country (and, evidently, at least one from a slightly more mountainous High Country). But it was a difficult afternoon for me because I realized immediately it required a fundamental skill that I lack—the art of the cold sale. Because it wasn’t a reading, I was left to what I used to call “booth duty.” Having wandered through many exhibit halls in my professional career, I was always acutely aware of my pathological inability to “work the crowd” (either as a salesperson or a customer) and curious about those who could.

[There was that memorable weekend when I went with Mr Brilliant to help in his exhibit booth at a convention of 5,000 mathematicians in Cincinnati. Call me Vanna White. The two of us were strange creatures indeed in a mammoth exhibit hall of slick, commercial booths while we sat in a small 10×10 space that looked like an old European bookshop, Mr Brilliant talking to Subrahmanyan Chandrasekhar and me wondering who the hell Dirac was.]

And so I entered this room, unprepared for the “booth duty” that would fall to me at a simple table shared with another writer. It was that other writer who wrote the book that serves as this third gift in celebration of my 50th birthday year giveaway extravaganza. Emma drew in her sketchbook just behind us.

Booth2The other writer and I talked for three hours as we navigated the people walking past our table and those who walked up to us wanting to hear the 10-second synopsis of two books about dead parents. Each of us recognized both our desire to connect with those willing to stay for the 180-second version and, simultaneously, our mutual inability to sell without some connection to the content, some dancing in the words.

Her poetry is exquisite.

The slender volume in front of her on that table that afternoon was called Psalm, a book affirming what’s most essential to ordinary life and to artistic expression: the fact that one is permitted to walk the earth and partake of its wonders.

Here’s what people have said of her work:

Carol Ann Davis’s poems are so precise they are almost hallucinatory. And in some poems she sets hallucination free. The precision is true, creating a marvelously jarring effect. She is always studying reality, with a microscope that creates sure distortion. There is a sad pageant going on in these poems, one that breaks your heart. And then gives you your life back all over again.” – James Tate

To be entered in the drawing to win a signed copy of her book, Psalm, just leave a comment that somehow celebrates the alphabet or alphabetical order.  If Her Highness can stop riding her bike with training wheels long enough, Tess will do a drawing at 5:00pm Eastern on Friday, March 13, 2009, to determine the winner of these beautiful poems!

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

35 comments to " Celebrate alphabetical order (and win a book of poetry) "
  • Kathy

    I hope then, that Tess will be singing this song when the drawing occurs, as taught us by Big Bird:
    ABC-DEF-GHI-JKL-MNOP-QRSTUV-WXYZ
    It’s the most remarkable word I’ve ever seen
    ABC-DEF-GHI-JKL-MNOP-QRSTUV-WXYZ
    I wish I knew exactly what I mean
    It starts out like an “A” word as anyone can see
    But somewhere in the middle it gets awful “QR” to me
    ABC-DEF-GHI-JKL-MNOP-QRSTUV-WXYZ
    If I ever find out just what this word can mean
    I’ll be the smartest bird the world has ever seen!
    *******
    Sounds like you two were anchors for each other. If I don’t “win” the book, I’ll be looking her up anyway.

  • Dear Patti: I tried to put a photo of the Butterfly Alphabet in a comment but unfortunately I couldn’t do it.Please consider this my entry.
    http://joyfulwrecks.typepad.com/joyful_wrecks_reflections/2009/03/in-praise-of-the-alphabet-for-patti-digh-and-frederich-buechner.html

    Continued thanks for all of your good work. With gratitude, Trudy

  • Jennifer Dempsey

    Patti-

    In celebration not only of the alphabet but also of the beauty of diversity, I bring you and your readers “The Alphabet Song” sung in English, Hebrew & French…compliments of a giant purple dinosaur.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FodJ36KailY

  • Barbara

    A beautiful canary does eat fueling gnats. Hooray, I just knitted little mittens! Now obtain Pandora’s quartz ring so Tatiana understands virtually what xcites you, Zelda.

    Thanks for another giveaway Patti. I hope I win!!!

  • Ruth

    Today is brought to you by the letter “A”. “A” for alphabet, without it, we would have no words.

  • When I was a little, little girl my dad said there was one rule. Have fun. I also have memories of not being allowed to say the alphabet around the house. It took me many years before I realized this was my dad’s way of telling me to just enjoy being a kid. I had plenty of years ahead of me to learn the alphabet.

  • Oh, the alphabet! We sing it when we’re little; we decode it with gusto and then use it to read all those glorious books! And, when we get a bit braver, we use it to tell our own stories – stories needing to be told and heard. Alphabets unlock the mysteries of our souls.

  • Having a last name beginning with “S”, I have always hated having to be placed in alphabetical order-not in the front-but almost last. After reading your description of knowing that you were lucky to have been placed next to the person you needed to get through your day, I will forever be aware of who I am being placed next to. I will now celebrate the “ABC” order because that person may be there just for me, or me for them.

  • Teresa J. Wilber

    It has been my artistic passion of studying calligraphy that is my connection with the alphabet. For over 30 years, I have attended many workshops to enhance my execution of exquisite letterforms that I find no computer will ever be able to replicate. From this endeavor, the book arts have become another serious element of calligraphic applications, creating artistic books, whether blank or filled with the eloquent words of others. But, more importantly, I have had the opportunity to make connections, meeting other interesting, artistic, and creative “letterheads,” during this journey, all with the same interest in keeping a beautiful art alive in this high-tech, fast-paced, techno-world. We all share that special connection between the head and hand, each creating an expressive tie to the heart with words and our special alphabet.

  • Today I am going to try to live as “P” for Peacemaker and am trying to live peacefully as Daniel Gottlieb describes in his wonderful little book Titled “Learning From The Heart”

  • Joy

    If it’s meant to be,
    I shall win the poetry.
    If I don’t–O well.

  • Your request for our alphabetically-creative comments led me to remember this sounds-to-be-delightful book (Ella Minnow Pea by Mark Dunn), which I’ve been meaning to buy and read – thanks for the unintentional nudge!

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0967370167?vi=glance

  • Janey Davis

    You write of being at a table with another writer just because your names follow an alphabetical order. Now I know why Patti Digh blends so well with the Davis clan!
    This is so true throughout our life, begining with first grade. When I was going into 7th grade, it was not to a “middle school” that we now have. It was from a very small grade school, to the High School, where those BIG kids roamed the halls! My friends were from the group of Js,Ks,Ls, and M’s who were grouped together.
    I was an M.

  • When I got married I took a name that moved me not only to A, but to Ab… My appreciation for alphabetical order increased dramatically–I am surprised when not FIRST in line! (Though I am also the first on every volunteer list–it took me years to realize I could say ‘no’ or ‘call me back’–that they might not actually need me, I was just first on the list!)

    AS an aside, when my sister-in-law got married she went from an a-name to a z-name–equally positionally portentious!

    Would love a book of poetry to read!

  • Hi Patti! This is your friend from Jane’s that wrote ALL in her book(actually I am still writing in it!). “Her Highness” is in alphabetical order…that’s one thing to do with the alphabet. Here’s another. I have always said that my 26 favorite things are the letters of the alphabet. By themselves they have not only built a world of languages, books and beautiful words but they alone can tear them all down…hurtful, thoughtless words can be so painful but don’t we love to hear that we are Valued. I Value you and your words. The way that you string all those letters together just warm my soul.
    Now, how’s that for an alphabet entry?

  • When I met my future husband, I was Lissa Bergin.

    When we married, I became (for a time) Lissa Bergin-Boles (I’ve since dropped my maiden name – another story).

    A client gave me an affectionate new nickname shortly after that became almost as hard to part with as my maiden name was: L Double B!

    And for the record, though I’d like to win I have a feeling Kathy takes this one…

    P.S. I was deeply touched by – and admiring of – your response to ‘I think you could learn something from the woman sitting next to you.” Not all things that can be learned should be.

  • afraid am and because between book father I matter my myself, of of of of poetry, somewhat still. subject the the things unsaid

    Sometimes alphabetical order isn’t the best way to approach something.

    I learned the alphabet by studying the spines of the 1958 World Book Encyclopedia, lined up ever-so-precisely in my mother’s living room. I still remember that moment of magic, when the shapes made letters that made sense.

  • ALPHABET WOMAN

    by Marion Lawless Murff

    (Written after reading beat poet Anne Waldman’s poetry. She was inspired
    by the shaman woman, Maria Sabina’s chants…..Life is, indeed, a circle!)

    I am an Alphabet woman, a magician with words.
    I am a Book woman, reading to stay alive.
    I am a Creative woman, forming art from garbage.
    I am a Dragonfly woman, flying between worlds.
    I am an Earthy woman, friends with trees and flowers.
    I am a Flying woman, soaring nightly in my dreams.
    I am a Gardening woman, tiller of soil and soul.
    I am an Herbal woman, creator of enchanted potions.
    I am an Intuitive woman, looking beyond facades.
    I am a Joyous woman, happy to be alive.
    I am a Kind woman, treating others with respect.
    I am a Learning woman, hungry for truth and knowledge.
    I am a Moon woman, in tune with lunar cycles.
    I am a Nature woman, hearing the earth’s heartbeat.
    I am an Ocean woman, drawn by the pull of the tides.
    I am a Poet woman, midwife to little poems.
    I am a Questioning woman, every seeking mystery.
    I am a Reading woman, devourer of words.
    I am a Survivor woman, growing stronger with each challenge.
    I am a Tattooed woman, wearing my spirit on my skin.
    I am an Understanding woman, full of empathy.
    I am a Victorious woman, overcomer of obstacles large and small.
    I am a Wild woman, indefinable, spirited and free.
    I am an X-ray woman, seeing through life’s illusions.
    I am a Yin-Yang woman, ever seeking balance.
    I am a Zealous woman, passionate about life, truth and love.

    Blessings, Peace & Love,

    Marion

  • Lori Murray

    My mother used to sing this to me at bedtime when I was a child, and I sang it to my children when they were small:

    A you’re adorable
    B you’re so beautiful
    C you’re a cutie full of charm
    D you’re delightful and
    E you’re an eyeful and
    F you’re a feather in my arms
    G you look good to me
    H you’re so heavenly
    I you’re the one I idolize
    J we’re like Jack and Jill
    K you’re so kissable and
    L is for the lovelight in your eyes
    M, N, O, P I could go on all day
    Q, R, S, T alphabetically speaking,
    you’re okay
    U own my very heart
    V you’re so very smart
    W, X, Y, Z
    It’s so fun to wander through
    the alphabet with you
    and tell you what you mean to me!

  • amy

    wow, very touching…!
    a

  • And for your viewing pleasure:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eLPPxSdwJw

    the fairy alphabet

    Blessings

  • sally

    I celebrate the alphabetical order that my mother taught me by osmosis: She took me to the library where she worked. The alphabet became ingrained at the end of those days as she let me file the cards from all the books that had been checked out. We filed the cards in a special, well, tool, I guess — a row of leathery flaps, each with a letter on it. I can’t seem to remember if we went by the last name of the author or the title of the book (discounting the words “the” and “a,” of course) to categorize the cards, but I love thinking of that old library and its smells and the quiet at the end of the day. A much larger building has taken its place, but there is a little reading nook there named for my mom, Nancy Ann Barnett Fryberger.

  • I was born a D
    became accustomed to sitting near the front of the class – if we were lined up by the alphabet.
    But since I was married 53 years ago I have been an S and have avoided alphabetical distribution if I can because that S puts me near the end.

  • Carol Sanders

    As my BFF says, “the alphabet is your friend.” Whether skywriting or typing on the old Underwood, sorting your cd’s or filing your bills, organizing your books or your thoughts…it is the one all-purpose, swiss-knife of a tool.

  • Always, before cuddling down, enthralled forever, gracefully hiding inner junk, knowing little more never-obvious perfectly queer remnants…surely time unfolds vital wisdom, x-raying Zanadu.

    [PS – love the glasses, Patti]

  • Amanda

    So creative! I teach small children and I never worry about alphabet…..I tell their worried moms and dads that the abcs and 123s come when they are ready, but knowing how to be a good friend….now that is a skill I spend a lot of time teaching. So, the alphabet is just lovely…what a funny milestone….and it comes when it’s ready, no matter how many times we sing..abcdefg…well, you know the rest!
    Amanda

  • Ok Patti…step…away….from…Twitter

    sloooowwwwly…It’ll be OK. For reals.

    Now, you have to approve my previous comment so I can be in the alphabet running.

    Excellent. Now off to Tweet you go.

    In case my previous comment got etherized. My alphabet entry is here:

    http://nfluxus.com/home/?p=122

  • A told B and B told C “I’ll meet you at the top of the coconut tree.” Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.

    What can I say I read books to a 4 year old every day :-)

    p.s. new to your blog..found you through a blog twice removed (hope that makes sense)

  • When I married, I learned distaste for alphabetical order as it made me a W. An R isn’t all that much better, but a W is woefully wanting for a better place in line.

    xo
    qm

  • Daina P.

    I Praise the Potent Potential of the Powerful Alphabet! And the oPPortunity to use it for Positive alPhabetic exPression.
    Thanks Patti!

  • mary castagnoli

    Not nearly as dear as Lori Murray’s bedtime rhyme – but this was a little joke on paper that my father used to share with folks:
    AB CD Goldfish?

    LMNO Goldfish.

    SMR Goldfish –
    CMP?
    Which would then lead him into a song-fest of: “Mar-sey Doats and Doesy Doats and Little Lambsey Divey. A Kiddle-de-Divey 2, Wouldn’t You?” and went on to something about fish: “Swim said the momma fish, swim if you can and they swam and they swam all over the dam. (chorus) Poop-poop-didum-dadum-wadum-choo, Poop-poop-didum-dadum-wadum-choo, Poop-poop-didum-dadum-wadum-choo AND THEY SWAM AND THEY SWAM ALL OVER THE DAM!”
    that’s all I got – unless anyone wants the lyrics to: “I Went to the Animal Fair” – Although I think Richard Dryfuss did a pretty good rendition of it in a movie with Susan Anspach where he drove a yellow volkswagon and was a detective.

  • Roy

    I saw Joy’s comment and must comment as well. I read Ella Minnow Pea a few years ago. The most striking thing about the book was how absolutely possible the story sounds in light of the silliness of the world where those of us who avoid telling our companions on spaceship world how to live their lives must live with those who seem to live for that purpose alone.
    That a book with such an intriguing and delightful title and character, Ella Minnow Pea was a most disturbing read.
    It is worthy of the read, however, for no other reason tha the absolute delight with which one who loves language and words is permitted to witness a profoundly difficult conceit carried out in magnificent form.

  • Carol Blalock

    Hi Patti, I am Beth Cooper-Zobott’s twin sister. Sitting alphabetically to me was always a comfort, always a treat, because it meant I got to sit next to Beth!!! Always a friend to share a laugh with, always a co-conspirator in being naughty, always someone to roll my eyes at.

    Enjoying your blog and hope to meet you some day…Beth talks affectionately and reverently about you always.

    Carol Blalock

  • Chris Meissner

    I started practicing calligraphy 20 years ago….so an abecedarian sentence seemed appropriate. Instead I’ll leave a bit from the Beatles “All together Now”

    A, B, C, D,
    Can I bring my friend to tea,
    E, F, G, H, I, J,
    I love you.

  • Barbara Israel

    Did anyone win the book of poetry??? If so I missed the blog reference to it.

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