Poets tell us of absence, and of kindness

MowerJill posted this and I knew immediately it had to join our Poemapalooza for National Poetry Month. It is a simple poem, it seems, yet there is so much there, around and through the words.

The Mower

The mower stalled, twice; kneeling, I found
A hedgehog jammed up against the blades,
Killed. It had been in the long grass.

I had seen it before, and even fed it, once.
Now I had mauled its unobtrusive world
Unmendably. Burial was no help:

Next morning I got up and it did not.
The first day after a death, the new absence
Is always the same; we should be careful
Hedgehog

Of each other, we should be kind
While there is still time.
 

-Philip Larkin

[Mower image from here]

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

5 comments to " Poets tell us of absence, and of kindness "
  • From the smallest creature to the extreme of what we are dealing with now … Somehow this puts something in perspective for me. We had our monthly spoken word night last night. I had thought it would focus on Earth Day and spring, but other things were on people’s minds.

  • so sad. the only thing I knew about Larkin was “This be the verse,” which I’ve been quoting a lot lately as my teen daughter puts me thru the wringer. But this is a dear wee poem and thought-provoking. Thank you.

  • This brought tears to my eyes. I admire poets who can capture the moment and the emotions of the moment in a few stanzas. again thank you…

  • I love Philip Larkin…

  • Thanks Patti

    It’s just a wonderful poem, short enough to memorize.
    It’s actually one of two I now know by heart. The other is William Butler Yeats’ poem My fifteth year.

    Oh how I wish I had memorized more poetry when young.
    I wish I had more poems that I “owned”.

    Maybe another way is posting more, like you have on your blog
    making April an even more delightful month.

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