Poets (and dogs) show us what love is

BlueFetch

Nothing is ever too hard for a dog,
all big dumb happiness and effort.
This one keeps swimming out into the
icy water for a stick,
he’d do it all day and all night
if you’d throw it that long,
he’d do it till it killed him, then he’d die
dripping and shining, a black waterfall,
the soggy broken stick still clenched
in his doggy teeth,

and watching him you want to cry
for all the wanting you’ve forsworn,
and how, when he hits deeper water,
his body surges suddenly, as if to say

Nothing could stop me now –
while you’re still thinking everything
you’ve ever loved
meant giving up some other thing you loved,
your hand, the stick stuck in the air,
in the shining air.

Ruth L. Schwartz

What do we love so much, as purely as a dog?

[A hat tip to Carolyn for sending this to me. That’s my dog Blue accompanying, a mix between a Jack Russell Terrier and a Saint Bernard. No, I couldn’t make that up. And no, I don’t know how it happened. In the words of SpongeBob SquarePants (the font of all wisdom), "use your imagination."]

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

4 comments to " Poets (and dogs) show us what love is "
  • sigh. I am an avowed dog lover. This poem made me think of my dog Sandollar, black lab, who’d swim so much for a stick…it makesme sad, actually, because I don’t think I love as well as dogs do.

  • Sally

    Poems like this remind me again and again that I need a dog. Yes, my children are too young for me to be contemplating this, but as soon as they hit, say, 6 and 4, I’m out the door to the pound. I don’t expect the kids — or my husband, for that matter — to feed or walk the dog; I recognize that I will be doing this purely selfishly for me. I can’t wait.

  • Joy

    Dogs are love incarnate. Even when my dog is a goofball [frequently], I wouldn’t trade her for anything.

  • I have my beautiful Adeline by my feet as I type this. Dogs are so easy to completely love.
    Blue is adorable!

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