D is for dance

Cave_2Every dance is a kind of fever chart, a graph of the heart. -Martha Graham

In 2008, I will come to be danced.

I had expected to write “D is for direction.” But an email from my friend, Nancy MacDonald, a few days ago changed my mind. She sent me this poem:

We have come to be danced

We have come to be danced

Not the pretty dance
Not the pretty pretty, pick me, pick me dance
But the claw our way back into the belly
Of the sacred, sensual animal dance
The unhinged, unplugged, cat is out of its box dance
The holding the precious moment in the palms
Of our hands and feet dance.

We have come to be danced
Not the jiffy booby, shake your booty for him dance
But the wring the sadness from our skin dance
The blow the chip off our shoulder dance.
The slap the apology from our posture dance.

We have come to be danced
Not the monkey see, monkey do dance
One two dance like you
One two three, dance like me dance
but the grave robber, tomb stalker
Tearing scabs and scars open dance
The rub the rhythm raw against our soul dance.

We have come to be danced
Not the nice, invisible, self-conscious shuffle
But the matted hair flying, voodoo mama
Shaman shakin’ ancient bones dance
The strip us from our casings, return our wings
Sharpen our claws and tongues dance
The shed dead cells and slip into
The luminous skin of love dance.

We have come to be danced
Not the hold our breath and wallow in the shallow end of the floor dance
But the meeting of the trinity, the body breath and beat dance
The shout hallelujah from the top of our thighs dance
The mother may I?
Yes you may take 10 giant leaps dance
The olly olly oxen free free free dance
The everyone can come to our heaven dance.

We have come to be danced
Where the kingdom’s collide
In the cathedral of flesh
To burn back into the light
To unravel, to play, to fly, to pray
To root in skin sanctuary
We have come to be danced

We have come.

Jewel Mathieson

Wild_dance_2 Intentions: In 2008, I will dance in my car. I will dance like a four-year-old. Every day, I will dance a one-minute dance of how that day felt to me. I will do more than dance. I will come to be danced.

[This poem reminded me of krumping. If you don’t know what krumping is, find out. You can start with the fascinating documentary movie, Rize.]

From the last alphabet challenge: D is for dorodango. Speaking of which, I gave Mr Brilliant two dorodango for Christmas, created for him by dorodango master Bruce Gardner. Being the dirt collector he is, it was the perfect gift. They are gorgeous. As is he.

[Art from here and here]

If you’ve enjoyed this essay, perhaps you’d also enjoy my upcoming book, LIFE IS A VERB, to be published by Globe Pequot Press in the fall of 2008. For more info, click here

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

6 comments to " D is for dance "
  • I like D for the dance – don’t krump my style. Yikes I am not sure at 53 I have that kind of krump-energy but I will let the dance – dance me.

  • I LOVE that poem.

    Hey…where did the alphabet challenge originate from? It’s doing it for me, and I think I’d like to try it. I have a theme bumping around in my head – “Big Words” – and I want to try my hand at writing in a less stream of consciousness fashion than I have been.

    (Oh Noes! Caty tries structure!)

  • Oh, wow. How powerful! I facilitate healing drum circles, and there’s one in particular that I love to lead – it’s all women and girls, and the core group has been together long enough that we’re all very comfortable getting up an letting the music move us however it will. One of the missions of the circle is to “bring wholeness and empowerment to each woman as she emerges into her true self and heals her relationship with her body through playing traditional rhythms, dance and free movement”. It works! I love to see women, who come in slightly shy and self-conscious, bloom to where they’re banging their drum with abandon and getting up and… being danced.

    Thanks so much for sharing the poem.

    Yay! I want to go drum and dance now. Both D words.

  • Sally

    I like dancing at my desk. Nothing gets my juices going for writing like playing music I love that gets me bopping in my chair. I’m sure the other prairie dogs in my cubicle farm glance up and smirk from time to time when they see my not-so-blond-anymore ponytail shaking down the row….

  • Great poem! For some odd reason it is calling up the persistent memory of this quotation:

    Life is a long lesson in humility.
    -James M. Barrie

    Humility as a good thing that is, a very good thing, a clear-sighted open-hearted kind of thing.

  • I liked this post, the words and images all dancing together.

    I’m delighted to read that you’ve got a book coming out in the fall. Best wishes with it!

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