I need your help

Brainfork_2 Dear friends,

Imagine that you’re in a bookstore. You’re surrounded by thousands of books. You’ve wandered to the self-help or inspiration section because, frankly, you need some self-help like only Americans can provide it and you need some inspiration because the kids are always yelling in the backseat and you’re washing the same ergonomic carrot peeler a thousand times and you can never figure out how to get your TiVo to work even though you’ve been paying for it for a year now. And you feel overwhelmed by the choices of books and the only thing you have to go on is how the books look and feel (and the typography, of course, in that endless search for Filosofia, the perfect font)—and by the quotes on the cover.

Yes, the quotes on the cover.

You know how, when you pick up a book and turn it over and there’s a big fat quote from Oprah or someone equally as influential in your world and you decide that this must be a good book or she wouldn’t have endorsed it? And you decide to buy it because you recognize all the important people who are quoted on the cover saying things like, “this book changed my life,” and “this book is better than sliced bread in a can of adobo sauce.”

I have finished my book, LIFE IS A VERB, and have now officially entered into the 9th circle of hell, which is when the publisher asks, innocently, "who do you know who might provide an advance quote that might help sell the book?" And you fall, fall, into that dark corner of Satan’s lair where you spend eternity identifying people who might deign to take a peek at an advance copy and provide a quote that will help sell the book. People whose names are meaningful and known by others in some way. There’s just no other way to say that, is there? Can I tell you that I Officially Hate This Part of It?

And yet, my dear friends, for one of the few times in my life, I am fully proud of what I have done (except, of course, I was also mighty proud that time in the 6th grade when I, a girl, beat Jackie Russ, a boy, in the Field Day Softball Toss, and in the 7th grade when I was named the Ping Pong Champion of Morganton Junior High, and when I gave birth to two extraordinary humans—those are right up there, too). I believe this is a book that needs to be in the world, I truly do. And I hover on the edge of painfulness when I say that because it feels boastful. I don’t mean for it to. I feel, in some great way, a mere agent for this book’s delivery into the world. I needed to write it, for me.

That’s a long way of saying this: If you think of people I should approach to review LIFE IS A VERB, please let me know—perhaps you think that Mitch Albom would be a great fit for the message of this book, or Maya Angelou, or a college president or NPR reporter, or the author of one of your favorite books. I need to cast a wide net, so any and all suggestions are welcomed.

And if your aunt Olive’s sister’s boy’s newspaper carrier is the great-nephew of the grandson of a former Miss USA’s second-grade teacher, or if you have any connection to people who are known, whose endorsement might help LIFE IS A VERB reach its audience, please let me know that, too. I would be forever grateful.

And, like the project that has inhabited this book with its artwork, I would be remiss if I didn’t include real readers of 37days in this process because your comments mean the most to me. Over the past three years, I have gotten incredible emails and comments from people about the impact of 37days in their lives. I’ve asked my publisher about including “testimonials” from the people who have joined me on this journey—you. And if you’ve read this far in this long nervous marketing rant, you really are a reader of 37days….

If 37days has been meaningful to you in some way, I hope you’ll consider writing a very brief, 2-3 sentence “testimonial” that might be used inside the book and on 37days. You can either leave a comment here or email me with “LIFE IS A VERB Testimonial” in the subject line. Not all can be used, but I’ll include as many as I can. Please include your name and location (city/state/country), if you feel comfortable doing so.

With great love and affection,

Patti

[image from brainfork]

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

14 comments to " I need your help "
  • Jan Walmsley

    When you think the world is going to Hell in a hand basket, read this woman’s thoughtful reflections on self, people and life…her words will put your heart and mind in the right place!

  • my comment would be:

    ‘Patti shows us a new way to view this big, messy world of ours. A way that is softer, kinder, more thoughtful and ultimately, brings a new level of meaning to the chaos.’

    -Brandi Reynolds

  • I assume Billy Collins is a lock.

    *Nelson Mandela
    *Marianne Williamson
    *Barack Obama
    *Cecil Williams (www.glide.org)
    *George Clooney (Darfur)
    *Mariane Pearl

    Your essays carry the power to effect change on a very deep level. This is earth-moving stuff. Aim high…and go move some mountains. xoxo

  • Sally

    Patti Digh’s words continuously help me lead a more thoughtful, grounded life. I am grateful every day for the inspiration I get from her writings.

  • Esther

    Reading Patti Digh’s essays are like sneaking chocolate, like the moment before you blow out your birthday candles, like when the lights come on and it’s a surprise party for you!, like the first time when someone says I love you – but so much better, because you can read her over and over and over again and reap the rich nuggets that are there-that speak to you only it seems (how does she do that?!) and then the very next time you may read the same essay, another rich, lucious nugget comes forth perhaps even better different than the first time. I know this is too long for a testimonial – but i’m not writing it to be included, i’m writing because it’s the truth for me. Rock on Patti!

  • I would suggest the following:
    Julia Cameron
    Sark
    Thomas Moore
    Marianne Williamson (as above)
    Sarah Ban Breathnach

    My review of your blog Patti:
    Patti reflects and authentically expresses living. She is inclusive, funny, spirited, touching,creative, inspiring and genuine, sometimes all in one essay! Reading her blog takes me to a better place.

    * I’m so pleased to know its soon to be on the shelves.

  • Patti’s essays are constant reminders on how to live in a mindful state. This is a good book if you need help, if you need to pause, or if you just need to realize that humanity shares more similarities than differences. It is as wise as it is fun.
    — The poetry yeller’s niece:)

  • Chris

    Why I read Patti’s blog and why I can’t wait for the book….It’s because Patti writes only to me…it’s true. Patti’s writings resonate with life’s currents. I feel affirmed, inspired and challenged to dig deeper. Did I mention her wacky sense of humour?

  • Well, there is also Anne Lamott (who would be wonderful), Susan Woolridge (who wrote Poem Crazy and Foolsgold).

    Hmm…I need to think about what *I* would say for the book (and blog). Your essays have meant so much to me…they deserve more than I could possibly say at the moment.

  • i wish i were famous and i’d write you a kick ass blurb and you’d sell 37 trillion books …. but instead, you’ll have to settle for knowing that your dear words enlighten and enrich ordinary me…..

  • Patti, oh Patti, oh Patti. The world is flat, remember? And this blog is your platform, and it’s also flat. It is just a stone’s throw over to Billy and to Anne. The sheer jaw-dropping, jowl-shaking fact is that you not only adore them, you WRITE, and WRITE and WRITE just like they WRITE and WRITE and WRITE. And you’re brilliant and hilarious and touching and “you do NOT have permission to play small now,” she said, wagging her finger with an intentional, lingering palsy.

    Love

  • Oh, and here’s a start on the letter:

    Dear Annie and Billy,

    My friend Patti Digh, whom I’ve never met, has written about both of you on her blog for at least 37 days.

    She remembers turning 10, back when she wore blue shoes, back when she first knew she wanted to be a writer.

    My special request is that you pay it forward to someone you’ve never met, just like I have, and endorse her new book. It’s a deliciously risky and right thing to do.

    Sincerely,

    Lisa

  • Katiebean

    Appropos of nothing
    I wanted to share this video that a friend shared with me. It’s from a concert in the Netherlands with Jerry Lee Lewis, Fats Domino and Ray Charles. The music was good but just thinking about all of that force together on one stage and then seeing made me weep. What a wonder.

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xe5w0_ray-charles-jerry-lee-lewis

  • Kurt

    I wish I could be of help, but you are the only self-help author I’ve ever read. But best of luck!

    “The only self-help author I’ve ever read” – Kurt

    Or how about the classic Steve Martin blurb, “I laughed, I cried, then I read the book.”

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