on gentleness, and being vulnerable

I’ve had this video on replay all day. The song starts at 1:00. Listen.

There is a quality to his performance that is mesmerizing, magical. It is a quietness, a knowing, a vulnerability that opens up all kinds of space for me, any listener, inside the song.

This is worth knowing, exploring.

In a world hellbent on performing and showing and demonstrating and wowing, here is a quiet voice that stuns us. I love the quiet in the hall as he sings. There is no sound. And when he ends, a full five seconds elapses before the large audience can bring themselves to break the spell.

What if we spoke our truths like this? Quietly, without moving our feet, taking up just a little space, not a large space. Not shouting, no pop-ups, nothing to distract from the sheer quality of the voice itself.

What keeps us from this? What moves us toward flash and powerpoint slides and booming music and dry ice fog and diversions? Why must we deflect ourselves from our one true voice? What would happen if we just showed up?

It is magic, this.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

12 comments to " on gentleness, and being vulnerable "
  • Yes, Patti, it is magic. Thank you for sharing this. Yes to more quiet truths and humility, and less shouting and flash.

  • Elizabeth

    Dearest Patti .. .

    This is to cherish ..

    I love that *you* are gentle and vulnerable!  

    With gratitude and love, always love…
    Elizabeth

  • Jan Sturtevant

    I can see why you’ve  had this on replay all day. A stellar performance; such eloquent restraint. It is magic and he made me believe. We could take more time for simple, quiet intensity–for such assured testimony.

  • Eloquent.  Beautiful.  Pure.  

  • Lissa

    What’s kept me from it is fearful assumption that the quiet, honest truth of my heart wouldn’t be enough. But the subtle & simple & true is the best kind of ‘big’ there is, isn’t it?

  • sbraley

    Thank you for the goosebumps, Patti. People listen better, hear better, in the quiet.

  • candice

    Yes, indeed, Patti. What would happen if we just showed up? More importantly, why have we made that not enough? In our insane need to be special, to be a “stars” in some way, we have lost our deep connection to others and our authenticity. It is so comforting to see that this young man kept his intact and he is being honored for that.

  • mj

    wow
    and, did you search youtube to linger and delight in every moment possible?
    He wrote and sang an original song “summer child”, listen, it could be Tess’s song.

  • Watersprite336

    The courage he had to know he ‘didn’t fit in with the members of his family’ and that music was the one thing he did well.  And then he did it.  I was moved to tears.  And since I am still working on my own courage to do the thing I do best (at 53) it fueled my Spirit.  Thank you for posting this.

  • Esther

    Thank you for bringing this forward.  So beautiful to see that Sam being himself and singing his truth can wow all of us and his audience, and by so doing giving us evidence that we need to each give our truth.  Secondly, thank you for what you wrote highlighting his performance and helping me recognize the beauty and clarity that is always a result of reading your blog.  

  • Recessnotjustforkids

    your posts just put in me such a space of peaceful awareness-thank you

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