Live so the poems can find you.

Coal handscropped I'm celebrating the 6th anniversary of 37days this week with a few guest posts. This one is by writer Joanna Paterson from Scotland, whose accent I deeply yearn for.


Live so the poems can find you

I’ve learned a lot from 37days.  Some big ahas, some quiet moments, some deep, significant shifts.  (Yes, seismic, sometimes.)  If I had to try and sum that learning up, I think it would come out like this: live so the poems can find you.

I could safely say this way of thinking, of working, of living… has changed my life.  Has been life-changing.  Not to mention the many poems that have found me along the way ;-)

What it’s meant for me in practice has been something like this:

Spending as much time as possible outside

Taking photos.  I mean rather: taking photos with a mindset of wonder.

Making room for writing practice

Allowing what flows to be practice. Not perfect, not wholly formed.  Just practice

Sharing at least some of what comes out.  Poems do not like to be kept in boxes.

Letting the words tumble, and find their own rhythm

Noticing patterns, looking for connections

Listening to what people are saying (social media provides clue after clue)

Embracing beginner’s mind

Paying attention to the everyday.  There’s so much wonder to be found there.

Writing as part of the act of grieving

Listening to what the land, the water, the trees, the hills…are saying.

Listening to what my heart is saying: tears, laughter, whispers, songs, prayers, fire, softness

Passing it on: not being scared to share my work, not being scared to declare how beautiful the world is, passing on what I’ve learned about how it is possible to live, so the poems can find you.

As a small gift to the readers of 37days, here’s a small piece of poetry practice I wrote for the start of the New Year.  It’s prompted by the Scottish tradition of bringing coal as a gift when visiting someone’s house for the first time in the new year.

First Foot

Not knowing what it is you want
I bring you coal.
Drowning in the sea of not knowing
I dive deep down and
Bring you coal.
Hard-cut, hard-fought,
Glistening still with the
Blood, sweat and tears
With the
Hard graft
Mine craft
Of my father, your father,
Of their fathers,
Grandfathers,
The toil of
These men
These miners
Working deeply darkly underground
To bring us coal.
Cold, hard, true.
Light bringing, heat bringing,
Home making, hearth making:
Coal.
It's all I have.
It's all I know.
Not knowing what it is you want,
I bring you coal.

Thank you Patti, for the invitation and inspiration to sit down and write, to pay attention, to pay respect, and to pass it all on.

~~~

As a wee footnote: I haven’t met Patti yet – though if she does make it over to Scotland there’ll be a legion of raving fans awaiting her arrival. What I’ve learned is what I’ve learned by reading her words: in her books, on this blog, in tweets and status updates on the web… It’s how I’ve got to ‘know’ so many amazing people: reminding me over and over of the power of our words to make a difference, to make connections, to open up hearts.

‘Live, so the poems can find you’ is a slight variation of some words I found here on a poetry Wednesday: live so you can find the poems.

-Joanna Paterson

My heartfelt thanks to Joanna, whose words always deeply move me.

[If you'd like to contribute a happy blogiversary guest post for this week, please email it to me at patti@pattidigh.com]

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

19 comments to " Live so the poems can find you. "
  • Live so the poems can find you is so inspiring and beautiful. It is my experience too. Thank you Joanna. First Foot…expresses the raw authenticity of the loving heart.

  • As my husband’s family has coal miners in their past this poem spoke to me. So much blood sweat and tears for a dark and dusty lump which brings light to the darkness.

  • What a beautiful tribute to life this post is, almost like a manifest to live by! I agree with everything! :-)

  • This is beautiful. I want to read more of Joanna. I just found your blog, PD, so I didn’t know about Poetry Wednesday. Funny enough I unknowingly observed the same on my blog. :)

  • Great post! Thank you.

    I love everything implicit in the phrase “Live so the poems can find you.”

  • Beautiful. I’m touched, moved, grateful. Thank you for writing and sharing it with us.

  • Oh oh oh – this poem has just landed with me in a big way. Joanna has such a love for words, and the images that she creates with them never fail to sing out bright, and with a heat that is not only brilliant, but also deeply welcoming and warm.

    It makes me so happy to see her sharing them here on your blog, Patti.

    Much love to you both
    Amy
    xx

    PS She’s quite right about your raving Scottish fans, Patti! ;-)

  • Dear Joanna–
    What a beautiful post–a tribute not just to Patti, but to you and your life, obviously being well-lived!!

    I love the photo–is it available somewhere for use?

    Thank you again!

  • Patti, thanks again for letting me share my words here… it means such a great deal to me.

    Thanks everyone for your kind words, feedback and comments. I am so glad the post and poem resonated.

    @LucieJean, thank you… raw & authentic is what I think the world needs right now, to move and connect… plus it’s the way my words seem to come out ;-)

    @MamaKelly, thanks, I was trying to honour the work that our fathers and fore-fathers have done… glad it resonated with you

    @iHanna, yes, what started off as a writing journey has most definitely become about how you live your life :-)

    @Abby, what a happy coincidence! Glad you have found Patti, so much good stuff here

    @Maureen, @Margalit, thank you :-)

    @Amy, there’s a lot of your influence that has got us to here… next step to get Patti to Scotland!

    @Beth, thanks, I love how experience and expression gets tied together like this… Don’t know about the photo I’m afraid, it was Patti’s addition

  • Thank you for the reminder about listening to what my heart is saying. Such an important part of life. Beautiful and significant poem, too.

    My husband’s proposal of marriage was in the form of a beautiful poem and was so special to me.

    Thanks for sharing and I wish you well for 2011, Gee.

  • jylene

    i really enjoyed the references to social media. it has been so much fun for me, getting the chance to connect and reconnect to old and new friends, near and far. and you are so right about the power of words to open hearts! as for the poem– beautiful.

  • That is special indeed Gee :-) Thanks for your feedback and good wishes

  • Wow. That poem brought tears to my eyes. My father’s father was a coal miner in Yorkshire. He died before I was born of lung disease related to mining.

    Some of my great-grandparents were Scottish, so the traditions of first footing are familiar, although no longer practiced.

    I’m not the poetic type, but I do spend a LOT of time outside :-) now that I’m living the life I want, on my farm, raising goats and sheep. I find my poetry in my surroundings, in the flight of a hawk, or the cry of a newborn kid that I’ve just helped into the world.

    Thank you for your words.

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