Consider this : Turn a deaf ear to those who say the path of art is hard. Doing something you don’t love is a much harder path.

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Dear Emma,?

    1. Never forget the joy you first felt when you discovered art.
    2. Find a few people who believe wholly in you and protect these relationships with all your might.
    3. Don’t ask everyone you know for feedback. Creativity is subjective, and your art will find its tribe.
    4. Your dream has its own heartbeat. Listen for it.
    5. It’s a DIY world, but you can’t do it alone. Build your team as wisely as you would choose typefaces or words for lyrics.
    6. Embrace your place on Earth as a creative. Give thanks you were given this gift to share.
    7. Turn a deaf ear to those who say the path of art is hard. Doing something you don’t love is a much harder path.
    8. Study the patterns of your mind and honor your needs for time alone to create.
    9. Accept that not everyone will “get” what you are doing, even those close to you.
    10. If you ever doubt the value of your gift, imagine a day without sound, music, art or design.
    11. Remember that rejections are the building blocks of success.
    12. Don’t measure your success. Your steps will often be infinitesimal.
    13. Admire those who have walked the path you are on, and know it is a shared path.
    14. Concentrate on the square you are standing in right now. Tomorrow it will be a new one.
    15. Don’t compare yourself to those you admire. Babies learning to walk aren’t compared to long-distance runners. Each is on his own path to movement.
    16. Make your evolution your priority. You grow through change.
    17. Moments of fear are often signals of change on the horizon. Listen carefully to them.
    18. Learn to let go. You can’t control how people react to you. You can only control how and what you think about yourself.  
    19. Edit out those people who instill fear, doubt or negative thinking into your world.  
    20. Remember to look back at how far you have traveled. If you only see the mountains ahead, you will forget those you have already climbed.
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I gave a longer version of this advice to my son Pete as left for Berklee College of Music last year. The complete “90 Things I learned Along My Path to Creativity” is here: http://onecoolfreeidea.com/?p=554

-Deb Walsh  

I love this. I am particularly fond of numbers 1-20. Many thanks to Deb for sharing this.

I am gathering wisdom from the far corners of the earth to give my older daughter, Emma, as she graduates from high school. What would you say to her? Or to your own 17-year-old self? What thoughts would you ask her to consider? You can submit your advice (instructions here) and 37 of those will be posted over the next 37 days, one each day, culminating in a free e-book of all the submissions after her graduation on June 14th.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

5 comments to " Consider this : Turn a deaf ear to those who say the path of art is hard. Doing something you don’t love is a much harder path. "
  • Oh, A fricken MEN

    this is SPOT ON!

  • Thank you for these lovely words. They are so encouraging and empowering. I know most parents discourage their children to pursue careers in art saying they don’t pay well. That may be true but artists are not driven by money. And it’s true doing something you don’t love is a much harder path.
    I believe that in today’s society, you can do both, earn money and do what you love the most. Just do what you love to do, and everything else will follow.
    PS…Allow me to share an inspirational article on following dreams: http://sn.im/uxphf

  • I like #7…I am not an artist but my work is my ‘calling’ (my therapist told me that after only a few sessions with me…why didn’t I see that so clearly before now??)

  • Patti,
    I am honored to be included in your project for Emma. I love the message you are sending that the close of high school is the opening of another doorway of possibility. So many kids feel like high school is the end – when in fact it is just the beginning of a new chapter. Can’t wait to see the e-book!

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