A new (free) e-book in the making : Consider This.

Emma feeds Matthew an apple It seems unreal, this last mad dash to the end of Emma's high school career. In just a few short weeks, she will be donning a cap and gown and walking across a stage that represents so much to her, to me, to us. I know every parent feels this strange combination of pride and fear and loss. I know.

As we have walked step by step toward June 14th, and later toward college, it has occurred to me that there are pieces of advice I'd like to give her to take with her. Not that I imagine she will read it now, but perhaps later, much as she will read Life is a Verb later, when she's my age perhaps, and know.

And so, since many of you have watched her grow up–she was only 12 years old when I started writing 37days, I wonder if you might help me.

What is your best advice to Emma–to any young person graduating from high school this June or leaving home? What would you say to her (them) if you could only have 350 words in which to impart the most important thing for them to hear? What do you wish you had heard at 18 that might have helped (if you could have heard it then)? As Emma is an artist and planning to study computer animation and design in college, any artists who have special words of wisdom will be welcomed, too!

Instructions: Pick one of these formats for your advice: Either write it as an essay of 350 words or less or as a Tweet of 140 characters or less or as a piece of art or a poem or a cartoon or an anything you'd like to send! – and submit it to patti@pattidigh.com with the subject line "ADVICE TO EMMA" (if you don't include that subject line, I will never see it!). Be sure to sign it, letting me know how to attribute it to you, including any link you'd like me to include.

Beginning on May 8th, I'll pick one a day to post for the last 37 days of her high school life. I'll also create a free e-book of the pieces submitted for everyone to download and give to their own graduate, child, partner, whomever–shortly after the countdown ends on June 14th when she springs free of high school.

What is your best advice for dear Emma as she leaves home and ventures into the world?

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

10 comments to " A new (free) e-book in the making : Consider This. "
  • Emma darlin’,

    Congrats on making it to adulthood. You did it! You had help from your parents, and it’s likely your parents will always be there for you, but, now and for the rest of your life, it’s you who will do it. You make the choices.
    You know what’s right for you, even though sometimes you wont do what’s right for you. You’ll learn from it all. Not one second of it is wasted; it is all learning, living, loving. There is grace in all of it. There is no need for shame, guilt, seeking fulfillment or saving from outside of you. You have it all.
    When it becomes a challenge to know that, you can take a breath and be thankful for that breath. Then do the next thing and be grateful for that next thing.

    I wish you
    grace with ease
    all ways,

    Thomai

  • T

    Patti,
    I often read skipping up and down, so I just now got the part about emailing- AFTER I wrote it as a comment- oops. I think you have an idea how you’d like to post the notes/letters/advice, so i understand it if you delete that comment.

    I wish you incredible ease and joy with this transition.

  • What a great idea!!! I wish I had done that for my kids when they graduated! I shall ponder and email you!!

  • gwyn

    What an excellent idea! Now I must ponder my stores of wisdom ;-) I wish you were my Mom. xo

  • Ohmygosh, what a fabulous idea!

    And ohmygosh, what a fabulous photograph! It looks like a Renaissance painting. Though the Cookie Monster T-shirt kinda of ruins the effect. : o )

    But the lighting is gorgeous!

  • Dear Patti,
    I hope that the moment that Emma walks across that stage in that cap and gown will be one that you never forget . Your heart will swell and feel like it’s going to burst. Enjoy that moment because it makes up for all the spilled juice, the snotty noses, undone homework-you know,-you can fill in the rest. As mothers, our children are never just what they seem in the moment-they are always a two year old to us, or a 7 year old or a teen. They are all the stages of their lives. It’s rather remarkable, isn’t it?

  • Listen to your heart
    Love as you do
    Chase your dreams
    Stand in the light
    And be you!

    —————
    Congratulations, Emma. And congratulations, Patti. My only graduates Monday from NYU. He makes me proud.

  • Patti:
    Your creativity explodes again! What a wonderful and thoughtful thing to do for Emma. I can so clearly remember the day you told me that your were pregnant. Where does the time go but also look how much you and John have accomplished. And now the world will more fully meet, Emma, the wonderful combination of your brilliance and wit and John’s intellectual capacity and perseverance. I hope the world is ready for this treat.

    As always, Mike.

  • I just discovered this through Felicia’s blog… my son is in the middle of his graduating exams… and your idea is AWESOME!!! I’m late, I know, but is it alright with you if I post a similar post/question to my blogreaders on my blog? (I won’t have time for an e-book or something, but maybe I could make him a mini-album with good wishes/advise..) Please let me know if this is alright with you.. (I filled in my e-mail address)

  • P.S. I totally forgot… of course I will think about some advice for Emma too! You’ll hear from me again about that…

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