simple action saturday : “it wasn’t bad”

Martin-toler-jr-coal-miner The missing four miners in the Upper Big Branch mine explosion in West Virginia were found dead yesterday.

I remember the Sago mine disaster of 2006 for this reason, this note, scrawled on the back of an insurance form in the dark death chamber he knew would claim him, that would take him from those above ground who were anguished at his sudden missing.

And what did he choose to do in that space between life and death, between breathing and not, in that claustrophobic darkness? He chose to reassure those who would mourn him, those he loved, those in anguish. He chose to reassure them, given them this scrap of paper to hold on to.

"Tell all I see them on the other side. It wasn’t bad. I just went to sleep. I love you Jr.” And with those poignant words, mine foreman Martin Toler, Jr. went to sleep forever, along with 11 other coal miners in Sago, West Virginia, in 2006.

"It wasn't bad." Not "It won't be bad," but "it wasn't bad."

May the men in last week's mine disaster rest in peace. To them, my fervent hope that it wasn't bad. May their families find some peace, sometime, somehow. And may Don Blankenship, the CEO of Massey Energy, never find peace until he does something about the egregious safety violations at the mines that pay his salary. He is on Twitter at @donblankenship should you wish to encourage him to do so.

What is a fitting tribute to these dead miners? Encouraging reform in the coal industry. More importantly, asking ourselves how we can reduce our reliance on coal. Realizing that we must be willing to pay for precaution for each other, as Kathryn Ruth Schuth suggested to me on Facebook. Realizing that cheap energy prices–or cheap toy prices–mean that someone is likely being exploited to create that very thing for us.

And, as Jim Crawford suggested also on Facebook:

Turn off the lights and the TV when you leave the room. There's a simple action for this simple action saturday: Turn off the lights and the TV when you leave the room.

I would add one thing, the thing I learned from Martin Toler, Jr.: look outside yourself to reassure others.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

3 comments to " simple action saturday : “it wasn’t bad” "
  • gwyn

    Our lights go on and off by them selves depending on whether the room is occupied. Our home is very green. The other message I can take from this though, is the powerful act of remembering to tell people I love them just because. Something I know you advocate!
    Love,
    Gwyn

  • That note is a heart breaker. But also a message to those of us above ground. Do something. Anything. Make the world a better place.

  • Janey Davis

    as the grand daughter of a coal miner who nearly lost a leg in a mine,and , I suppose nearly lost his life as well, I can not help but feel great sadness for these grieving families. If my grand father had died in that mine, I would not be here today. But even more than that my 4 children, 9 grand children and 4 great grand children would not be here. And oh what the world would have lost. 25 men died in this latest disastor, but we will never know the lives that will never be created because of it.

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