simple action saturday : open

Closed I passed this office in the hotel-under-glass known as the Gaylord National near Washington, D.C., this week.

I think they're closed.

They were unamused when I asked.

In fact, they looked pretty unamused at everything. Hence, the signs.

Big, bold, closed. Not once, but many times closed. CLOSED. CLOSED. CLOSED. CLOSED. At intervals that precluded engagement. Several people sat behind those signs all day. I kept checking in on them, walking past, wondering if the "CLOSED" ever changed to "OPEN," or–at the very least–"PONDERING OPENING" or "HAVE COME TO THIS PLACE OF CLOSED-NESS BECAUSE WE'VE BEEN HURT IN THE PAST."

No, never. The signs remained constant the whole day. And so did the people behind them, obviously THERE but not.

I started thinking about what it is to be closed. And what it is to be open.

What do we do that is the equivalent of those four signs, just as bold and final and ridiculous, closing off all entry points?

They were there all day, just closed.

How are we like them?

Are we there, but not?

Today, even if just for a small space of time, open. Allow for engagement, entertain questions, do business with people who need what you can offer, open. Be fully there.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

2 comments to " simple action saturday : open "
  • Kathryn

    this is an action that just yesterday I was telling myself I’d like to make a “simple action.” i’m very good at being there. but not.

    i’m glad to have this picture to keep in mind. “PONDERING OPENING”

  • Becky

    And “just show up”.

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