found-art tuesday : the difference between a frog and a toad

Tess--venn diagrams I knew immediately who had drawn it.

I left before dinner last night to host a book group at Malaprop's downtown.

When I got home, I was just in time to tell Tessie a "little girl" story, our nighttime tradition. I tell her a story about a little girl who finds all kinds of adventures in her bedroom when she goes up to sleep at night. We never name the little girl, but we both know it is Tess herself. The little girl opens the door to her room each night and who knows what she will find! One night she fell right into a big bowl of Cheerios the size of her room, using a Cheerio as a life raft while she swam and played. Her parents come up to check on the unusual noises, but when they open the door, they can't see anything except her sleeping in bed. Of course. As it should be. Some nights there is a whole zoo in her room, or a water park with slides as high as the moon, or the world's biggest library, or bumper cars made out of SweetTarts candy.

So I missed dinner last night. Mr Brilliant told me what happened:

"Tess was busy trying to write something," he said. "And getting really discouraged. She hesitated and sighed a big sigh, and wailed, 'I can't even spell it.'"

"Spell what?" I asked.

"She wouldn't say. She just threw the paper across the table. I handed it back to her. 'Spell what, honey?' I asked her."

"Difference," she said.

So he helped her spell it, careful not to intervene, careful to just answer the question she asked. And she continued her drawing as the three of them ate.

When she handed him what she had drawn, I can only imagine him sitting there, shocked, looking at these two circles of difference, and the smaller but important place where they overlapped. This elegant display of logic, of set theory. In a six-year-old package. Of discovery, pure and simple. "It was breathtaking," he said.

Here's what he wrote me about it this morning when he emailed the picture of it to me:

"I've not seen many pictures in my career that show what discovery might look like–this is a ripping  example. It shows the work of a six-year-old independently creating one of the great organizational/logical tools, the Venn diagram, an elegant method of organizing and comparing the qualities of two (or more) entities. I think I can almost follow the thinking that went into the chubby fingers pushing the marker as the thought was being thunk."

This is what discovery looks like.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

13 comments to " found-art tuesday : the difference between a frog and a toad "
  • Oh Oh OH!!! This is incredible. Little ones, when not interfered with, take my breath away with their brilliance. I want to hug you, Mr. Brilliant and Tess (and recreate some of your stories for my little one).

  • I recognized the Boolean-logic visual expression named Venn as soon as I saw the drawing and realized, one more time and even a little more deeply than before, just how much trouble you are in, Patti.

    Probably a good thing you have Mr B on the team. (/understatement)

  • jo marks

    oh, that is just wonderful!!

  • Vera

    Pure delight! Thanks a million!

  • That’s incredible, Patti. Genius. I love how it’s labeled too, the overlap being “the same”. There is little I enjoy more than glimpses into the process of discovery and making meaning of the world that occurs in the developing mind of a child – Girlie is almost 4 and every time I have these moments I am awestruck. Thank you for sharing this from Tess, it made my morning.

  • Your Tess is going to run the world. I can’t wait.

  • Wow! I am just entering this stage of marveling at the mind of a child and just what it’s capable of. Just this week, Jack was sick with a stomach virus and, not knowing the term vomit or throw up, said that he had spilled. I couldn’t believe how his mind had come up with an adequate, nay more than adequate, alternative term. AMAZING!

    I always look forward to your stories about Tess. Keep’em coming. :)

  • Beautiful Tess, beautiful parents-of-Tess! How lovely to be present for these discoveries of the world, of her own inner genius.

    Thanks for posting this wonderful story, Patti.

  • smallbluebird

    Fasten your seatbelts, Patti and Mr. B. This is going to be one wild and adventuresome ride. There used to be a ride at Disneyland called Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride. LOL I think you’re on it daily!!

  • Ah…parents who recognize, appreciate, encourage and support the learning process ~ what a wonderful Venn diagram. This calls for a candle or two to celebrate the differences, the thinking, and frogs & toads !

  • As I thought about Tess and her frog and toad diagram I got to thinking about books- and she probably has already read them but this would be the perfect time to read the ‘Frog and Toad’ series by Arnold Lobel. I LOVE those books. Have a hoppy day!

  • I am always blown away by the intelligence and magic of children. I’m not sure why I continue to be surprised. Perhaps delighted is a better word.

    I love the sound of the stories you share with Tess. I have a one-year-old and I can’t wait till she’s old enough for stories like those. I’m even more eager for her input which I’m sure will challenge me to take the stories and characters in directions by grown-up mind would never have considered.

  • Ahhh, from the girl of teeny grapes and red convertibles…I am humbled in her presence (and am so enjoying your book–one of my goals is reading at bedtime for 30 minutes and I am reading about grapes and fire trucks and shoulders touching and it is a wonderful way to end the day…

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