stepping stone sunday: be a rock fairy (and perhaps win some rock fairy magic)

Rock Fairy

I arrived just 10 minutes before the reading was to begin. A four-hour Delta Airlines delay had left me with few options for actually getting there at all. While others lined up to talk to the gate agent in the tiny Asheville airport about this impending doom, I went back through security with my Ogio Layover Fantastic Rollaboard Wonder Bag and stood before the ticket agent at the Delta desk.

"Well, it looks like we can't get you there until 10:35pm tonight," he offered. "That won't do," I said nicely, my left eyebrow starting to twitch: "I have a book reading an hour from the Manchester, New Hampshire, airport at 7:00pm tonight. I have to be there."

"Sorry," he said, dismissing me. "Why don't you check with USAirways to see if they can help you."

Blink.

"No," I said, imagining Debbie Kelley waiting for me at the Manchester airport, a vision that moved me to clear and immediate action. "My ticket is with Delta. My ticket every single week of my life is with Delta. YOU check with USAirways to see it they can help me."

Long story short: I flew to Boston instead, Debbie arranged for a car to pick me up, and I literally walked into the book reading with 10 minutes to spare. Debbie greeted me with a pink sparkly crown and sceptor that she had made, saying "37days." She was handing out the coolest candles I had ever seen to all the full tables in the restaurant, full of people–it turns out–who had come to hear me read. All except one table in the middle with three people who seemed surprised at the chaos, ate, sat through a few stories, and then escaped with their leftovers.

Rock Fairy

As Debbie handed out crazy wonderful candles, a woman named Kim Mailhot handed out hand-painted rocks she had made, beautiful stones with gorgeous sentiments on them. I said hello to her as she passed, and she handed me a bag of rocks with a beautiful note to me, told me the story of the rocks–"I leave rocks everywhere," she said, "at the Louvre and the Eiffel Tower, near the supermarket…"

"You're a Rock Fairy!" I remember saying to her, thrilled by her guerilla rock art. "Yes, I guess I am!" she responded.

Rock Fairy pain change

She held out her basket of rocks for me. "Choose one," she said. And so I did. My rock said "Pain = change." I was struck silent for a moment, realizing that this was the rock I would carry with me. It is in my wallet and goes with me everywhere. The night before that trip, I had received some very difficult feedback from a friend. Difficult because of the grains of truth in it. Painful. And so, the next day, in the arms of this generous amazing woman had come my rock: "Pain = change." Funny how life works out that way sometimes.

Kim recently made me a video to celebrate the first birthday of Life is a Verb! And so, for that birthday celebration, for that rock, for her generous artistic self in the world, a gift is winging its way to Kim. It's a secret what it is. I'll tell you about it after she receives it.

Rock Fairy reading

AND! Kim sent a beautiful paper quilt square for my birthday along with a bag of her amazing magical rocks to give away to a 37days reader! If you leave a comment below with a quote about art or creativity, you'll be entered into the drawing to win this fabulous gift from Kim!

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

41 comments to " stepping stone sunday: be a rock fairy (and perhaps win some rock fairy magic) "
  • Living is a form of not being sure,
    not knowing what’s next or how. The
    moment you know how, you begin to
    die alittle. The artist never entirely
    knows. We guess. We may be wrong, but
    we take leap after leap in the dark.

    Agnes De Mille

  • I don’t have a quote about creativity. But how about one about truth.

    The truth means responsibility. Which is why everyone dreads it.

    Ugg. Hits at my heart. I hope your feedback was in love.

    Love your rock. ;)

  • smallbluebird

    On Writing:
    Let me walk through the fields of paper
    touching with my wand
    dry stems and stunted
    butterflies….
    ~Denise Levertov, “A Walk through the Notebooks”

    I love your rock and Kim’s idea of leaving rocks in places for others to find. ;-)

  • I saw the angel in the marble and I carved until I set him free.
    ~ Michelangelo

  • Here’s something I discovered after trying to avoid it for the longest time: We don’t FIND meaning in life, we MAKE meaning in life.
    And making meaning, is, of course, the core of creativity.

  • Lisa

    No matter how slow the film, Spirit always stands still long enough for the photographer It has chosen.
    -Minor White

  • Love these! (And Delta. Hmpf. I used to only fly Delta. Not so much anymore. ;-) )

    I was just speaking with someone yesterday whose whole entire existence seems to revolve around keeping someone from ever feeling any pain — ever. We discussed how he was then keeping this person from being allowed to grow as well. (It was quite the conversation, actually.)

    Here’s my quote:
    “Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep.” – Scott Adams

  • Happiness… it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort.
    Vincent Van Gogh

    This is about the Queen of Arts..with her big heart walking!! Kim is one of the most generous souls I have ever met…I’m so glad you and Kim spent time together Patti. I know it meant a great deal to her, and she was over the moon when you christened her the “rock fairy”!!

  • If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced. — Vincent Van Gogh

  • I love rocks.

    “Listen as if the world had just ended, and there was nothing left but vibration.”

    by @tannermenard

  • Ellen

    On creativity-

    One of the advantages of being disorderly is that one is constantly making exciting discoveries. A. A. Milne

    I like everything organized and just so; I struggle to let go and just be.

    Your book is the best book I have read in years. Many thanks for writing it.

  • by christine mason miller
    “and it is all part of one giant creative stew. where the more mixed up i can make things, the more interesting everything is…where instead of proclaming something does not merit the title “creative act”, i’ll remove the categories altogether and see where all these tiny bits of inspiration and wisdom are hiding today, waiting for me to notice them, usually right under my nose.”

  • Kim will be over the moon that she made your blog! I would love one of her rocks, she is, in her own way, a rock to many.

  • There is a fountain of youth; it’s your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of people your love. When you learn to tap this source you will truly have defeated age. ~ Sophia Loren

    I want to be a rock fairy!

  • Ruth

    And by the way, everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.
    ~ Sylvia Plath

  • Everyone who’s ever taken a shower has had an idea. It’s the person who gets out of the shower, dries off and does something about it who makes a difference. Nolan Bushnell

    I love your book – dipping into a few pages is a gift I give myself when the doing gets hard.

  • How cool to come to your blog and see the face of one of my other blogland friends here!
    “It took me four years to paint like Raphael, but a lifetime to paint like a child.” –Pablo Picasso

  • Some favorites from poet Muriel Rukeyser:

    The sources of poetry are in the spirit seeking completeness.

    The universe is made of stories, not atoms.

    Exchange is creation.

    Breathe-in experience, breathe-out poetry.

    If there were no poetry on any day in the world, poetry would have to be invented that day. For there would be an intolerable hunger.

  • Deborah in IL

    As people who paint and draw, we are all connected by our pictures. Artists who are working today, making paintings and picture books and cartoons, and those who lived hundreds and even thousands of years ago, like the cave painters in France and Spain, all speak to us and show us what they saw and how they felt. And I respond with my pictures, and you respond with yours.

    Mordicai Gerstein in Artist to Artist

  • Em

    A pile of rocks ceases to be a rock pile when somebody contemplates it with the idea of a cathedral in mind.

    Antoine de Saint-Exupery

  • “Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the complicated simple, awesomely simple, that’s creativity.” (Charles Mingus)

  • Kim has lifted me up so many times, and her video, so brave in the face of her fears, has inspired me, and led me to search out your book. If it has that effect on a heart like Kim’s I know I need to open it’s pages in my life too! Pain = change is a scary thing, but in 37 days maybe I’ll understand!

  • If we don’t take time to breathe, we can’t be creative, we can’t solve problems, and we can’t be truly innovative. –Michael Plishka

  • “There is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost.” Martha Graham

  • jylene

    every child is an artist. the problem is how to remain an artist once one is grown. -pablo picasso

  • Teresa

    I recently read a comment on Susan Boyle’s performance where someone wrote that “the voice doesn’t match the face.” My response to that was, “Susan’s voice matches her soul.” All art and creativity is the voice of the soul, whether we hear it or see it.

  • “The world of Imagination is Boundless” — Jean Jacques Rousseau.

    From a bookmark (the kind for pen-and-ink books) I’ve had since 1981. With a dragon and wizard, of course — I was younger then, and the print wasn’t as small as it is now.

  • Brenda

    Many of us die with the music still in us.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

    You are an inspiration.

  • Kim

    I adore hearing about other Kim’s out there in the world, marching along, making people smile!

  • Oh, Patti, this rock fairy is awesome indeed and one of my best blogland friends!

  • Barbara Israel

    “The arts teach children to exercise that most exquisite of capabilities, the ability to make judgments in the absence of Rules. There is no rule book, they must exercise judgment by looking inside themselves.”

    Quote by Elliot Eiser, Professor of Education and Art at Sanford University and author of “Arts and the Creation of Mind.”

  • i have had the extreme pleasure of meeting Kim this past week in the woods of NH. I found one of her rocks and it has moved me to tears and it has moved me to change. who knew? one word on a blue rock: expand.

  • Kim is such a generous soul – how fortunate you are to have met that lovely ‘rock fairy’!!
    a quote of the sculptor Auguste Rodin’s has always inspired me, for some reason:
    “The artist must create a spark before he can make a fire and before art is born, the artist must be ready to be consumed by the fire of his own creation.”

  • Sorry about your rough flight, but hope you enjoyed your trip to New England (it’s my neck of the woods!). I started collecting quotes on art and creativity a few months back. Here are a few for you:

    Involve all of your soul in creation. ~Victor Hugo

    The creative mind plays with the objects it loves. ~Carl Jung

    Life is a great big canvas. You should throw all the paint on it that you can. ~Danny Kaye

  • The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect, but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves. -C.G. Jung

  • Kim Bowen

    What fabulous rocks Kim creates! What a wonderful way to spread joy! I love them!

    “Every act of creation is first of all an act of destruction.”

    Pablo Picasso

  • Gale Stuart

    You both have touched my life…THANK YOU so much!!!

  • Carrie Alexander

    “Creativity comes from a conflict of ideas.” –Donnatella Versace.

  • lizzy carney

    Good morning Patti
    I start my day with your inspiring rocks…I reflect and scribble in my journal and carry the message with me so yes I have rocks in my head…and heart!
    Thank you for rocking my days with hope… smiles…and a vision to live now in joy.
    Rock on.
    Lizzy

  • Lucy M. Radatz

    Love how these rocks speak bedrock truth!

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