poetry wednesday.

The Dead

The dead are always looking down on us, they say,
while we are putting on our shoes or making a sandwich,
they are looking down through the glass bottom boats of heaven
as they row themselves slowly through eternity.

They watch the tops of our heads moving below on earth,
and when we lie down in a field or on a couch,
drugged perhaps by the hum of a long afternoon,
they think we are looking back at them,

which makes them lift their oars and fall silent
and wait, like parents, for us to close our eyes.

-Billy Collins

People I know have died this week, one old and one young, by her own hand. I will attend one funeral today and be present in spirit for another on Friday. The first night of being dead must be the hardest, it is said, and also that first night and always after for the living left behind with questions forever unanswered.

(To celebrate the absolute joyfulness of living, do yourself a little favor this morning and watch this. We all get by with a little help from our friends. Teachers have such passions, both inside and outside the classroom. Thank a teacher today. Be a friend to someone today. It might make all the difference.)

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

7 comments to " poetry wednesday. "
  • Friends who love to see us shine are the very best kind. Here’s thanks for kind of friends in my life today…
    Hugs, beautiful Patti.

  • gwyn

    Dear Patti, I am so sad for your loss, and the loss of youth esp. but so glad for your joyful way of sharing a hard thing. Thank You and all those friends teachers and helpers that have helped me get by.
    I am blessed.
    My loving thoughts are with you.

    Gwyn

  • jylene

    poetry wednesday arrived on thursday for me.

    i am so sorry for your family’s loss. and so very sad for the family of the young woman who committed suicide. that’s a very very difficult thing to go through.

    take care of yourself, patti.

  • marie tyndall

    our family lost a friend this week and will be going to his services friday. this was the perfect posting to read this morning. thanks for doing thi, patti. it’s a lovely place to spend a few moments and be uplifted and mindful.

  • Jan Stovall

    I’m sorry for your loss, Patti. But I’m grateful that in your time of sorrow, you chose words and thoughts of comfort to share with the rest of us. I loved the poem and video and will carry that image with me.

    Bless you!

  • I am so sorry. Beautiful words…inspirational. xo

  • Thanks for this lovely gift Patti. It comes on the eve of the forst anniversary of my mother’s death – and its “just right”. The poem must be comforting you too.
    Love

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