Protect your karma

"Insist on yourself; never imitate." – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Broken_pencilMy dear friends,

(this essay appeared in June 2006 and, sadly, bears repeating now because it is happening again)

It has come to my attention that portions of at least two essays from 37days have made their way verbatim onto another site in this wonderful blogosphere we all call home, not as if the blog author was quoting 37days, but as if they had, indeed, written those portions of the essays themselves.

Much like the planet Earth, living in this WebWorld will be infinitely more tolerable–and, perhaps, even more meaningful–if we all follow Emerson's advice and insist on ourselves, write from our own heart, tell our own stories. Isn't that where the learning is, both for us and others?

So, for those who have felt a lack of self-ness such that it has driven you to take words from my heart to your blog, I'm sorry that you're in such an arid place in life; I hope for better things for you and would simply ask you to please rethink the impact on your karma. (Since the posts in question appear in my book, Life is a Verb, I do imagine that my publisher might have a slightly more aggressive response, so in addition to protecting your karma, deleting the posts in question might also be a smart legal action also.)

As my most fabulous fourth grade teacher, Mrs. Smith, once said to me when I whispered an answer on a test to a little freckle-faced boy on whom I had a crush, "is it worth it?"

Let's each speak our own truth. Life will be simpler and kinder and infinitely more interesting then.

Love, Patti

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

17 comments to " Protect your karma "
  • Patti–While it is sad to learn of such actions on the part of others, I agree with you that only wishing them a better acquaintance with their own selves offers them light.

    And, your gentle reminder of consequences, both legal and spiritual, may provide exactly the impetus needed.

  • You are one class act, Ms. Patti !
    I think I just added a rock to my repetoire – “is it worth it ?” – Mrs. Smith would approve, don’t you think ?

    Big Love from the Rock Fairy

  • I am so sorry about this. I mention your book and blog and put a link on my bog sometimes because what you write is such an important part of my live now but stealing your words is just that …stealing. I’m sorry and hope you will keep sharing your insight.

  • Cindy

    Hello Patti,

    Let’s look at it in ‘another cheek” … IF you are not GREAT, they (the thieves) would not be interested in pretending your work is theirs!

    Nobody is interested in mine :(

    So, keep smiling! Your readers know your worth! And love your work.

    Cindy

  • Cathi Eifert

    This was a great way to handle this! I loved the quote from Mrs. Smith – I will definitely think of that one as I go about my daily way. As always, you give me things to think about!

  • Sally

    My fourth-grade teacher was a Mrs. Smith, too! She went on to be the most amazing director of the school she and I both love. She only retired about two years ago, which means she was 12 when she taught my brother and 16 when she got me.
    I’m sorry others felt the need to steal your words, Patti. Yes, I think of it as stealing.

  • Ruth

    Sorry this has happened to you, Patti. This is just as much stealing as it is when theives broke into my home on June 10 pillaging computers, cameras, ipods and every piece of jewellry. I did not handle this gracefully at all. You did ;)

  • They say that imitation is the highest form of flattery…plagiarism, on the other, not so so much. You are so very gracious in how you handle these people who would literally steal your voice and use it as their own. That would feel like such a violation. Poor sad souls, that they have so little to say that they feel the need to masquerade as another.

    LOVE Mrs. Smith’s words. Arrow sharp and direct to the point. Ouch!

    Blessings,
    Carolynn

  • argh. this is more than tiresome. but, i think you are so kind and gracious. what a good example you set!

  • Patti, you have grace and style which you have shown in how you have responded to this situation. Your teacher was very wise. And your point about your publisher was made with precision.

    Arid lives. You described that so well. For what other kind of person than one whose life is arid would consider doing what these two have done?

  • Jen

    I just finished reading life is a verb. I love it!! I now need to start journaling and work on my next adventure.

    It is sad that people think it is ok to copy as their own work. You are very graceful about your feelings!!

  • Roy

    A quote spuriously attributed to Samuel Johnson offers the following to writers who steal another’s work and fail to give credit as due, “I found your essay to be good and original. However the part that was good was not original and the part that was original was not good.”
    Your response was evenly delivered and offers the offender an opportunity to correct the offense.
    You clearly live the principles that infuse your writings and my admiration for you continues to grow. Having watched your tireless efforts, giving (LITERALLY giving of yourself) to your readers for years; it is heartbreaking to hear that someone would have so little respect for that history. Thanks for all you do and for living what you believe.

    Roy

  • Patti,
    A truly poetic and graceful response to the theft of what is your heart and soul.
    Thanks for inspriring me to be better than the circumstances and to ask all of us “is it worth it?”

    thanks again!
    Sally

  • Jane

    I love the Emerson quote! I do not follow blogs that quote massively from other writers, even if they attribute their excerpts. My main criterion for following a writer is original thought, even if that thought is not perfectly expressed or beautifully punctuated. No blogger elevates themselves by using someone else’s material, and if you think you’re not “good enough” to write from your heart why are you wasting bandwidth? Of course if you’re using someone else’s copy to promote your business, then you deserved to be sued. Patti, do let us know if your polite request worked.

  • Sorry to read that your hard work has been used by others without your permission. I hope it’s a misunderstanding of blogging manners instead of an intentional disregard for the law.

    Lots of people out there truly don’t understand that what they’re “sharing” on their blogs (and the way that they’re sharing it) is unethical/illegal.

    I’d like to assume the best of people, but if I found out they knowingly operated at the expense of another artist then I want to sprain their wrists so they can’t copy and paste anymore. xoxox tj in germany

  • gwyn

    Well done Patti! Having been involved in the photo sharing group flickr for the past 3 years, I have seen a variety of stealing, both outright and in the form of intellectual property, and I have seen many less than gracious responses. As we put ourselves out there in this world of easy access, it is inevitable that those feeling “less than” will make poor choices. Responding with grace rather than anger is a far better deterrent to further such actions. Thank You!

  • You couldn’t have handled this situation more brilliantly, Patti!! Mrs Smith has always been my favorite teacher. Seeing the impact she made on your life, I guess I know why now. I’m just curious, who was the little freckled-face boy in our class that you had a crush on?

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