Make a sign, don’t cry

Ice_cream_man_sign Scenario One: Tinkling bells of ice cream truck sound in the distance. We sit up straighter like dogs listening to an invisible whistle, cocking our heads to one side. "Is it?" we ask, and bolt for the door. Half dressed or not, we’re going out. We run down the front walk, Mr Brilliant in front carrying Tess like a sack of potatoes, her legs flailing on either side of him, bouncing up and down, side to side. Ice cream truck whizzes by (a symptom of our hyperspeed times? whatever happened to the 2-mile-per-hour lazy lollygagging of ice cream trucks?). Mr Brilliant runs into the street and follows the truck for half a block, with Tess still hanging on for dear life shrieking "ice cream man! ice cream man!" The driver never falters in his Nutty-Buddy-King-Cone-induced imitation of Mario Andretti. Tess bawls as Mr Brilliant turns back in defeat.

Scenario ad infinitum: Repeat Scenario One a thousand times. A thousand. Not 999, but ONE THOUSAND TIMES.

Intervention: After a particularly heart-wrenching race against the Ice Cream truck last night, Tess took it into her own hands today. At o’dark thirty this morning, as I waited desperately by the French press for the magic moment when I could push down the plunger, she busied herself by writing on a small piece of paper, Ice_cream_man_sign2 then cut something out with her tiny roundy scissors. She had created a minuscule sign for the ice cream man, no larger than 2 inches wide, for us to put in the yard to stop him the next time. "Fantastic! Maybe make another one that’s a tiny bit bigger," I suggested, and so she did. We’ll color them this afternoon, post them on the front pillar, and dare Mr Ice Cream Truck to speed on by.

Want something? Really want it? Desperately want it? Make a sign, don’t cry.Ice_cream_man_sign3_2

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

6 comments to " Make a sign, don’t cry "
  • In spite of the title of this post, for some reason reading this made me teary. See something you want? FLAG IT DOWN. You GO, Tess!! (Everything I needed to know I learned from a pre-schooler…)

  • Well done, Tess. If that doesn’t stop him, then you’ll need to recruit a marching band to come around the corner and stop him before he goes to far.

  • Beck

    God, I love it! It is so true, too! Maddy can be in a dead sleep during nap and if the (darn) ice cream truck goes by she knows it and is instantly awake playing drums on her bedroom wall calling, “Mommy! Mommy! Hurry, quick like a bunny! Ice cream truck!” Fortunately, we have a few courts near ours and need be I can hunt it down.

  • I can’t wait to see what Tess accomplishes as she continues to grow.

  • Sally

    I hope Tess got some ice cream! Our guy cruises oh…so…slowly…knowing if he does, a gaggle of kids might gather. A few weekends ago, we flagged him down, and suddenly, everyone we hadn’t seen in forever because of winter’s dark days was standing on our driveway, dollar bills in hand. Then the beers came out, and pizza was ordered, and we had our first summer dinner gathering of the year. Nothing finer.

  • Good one, Patti!

    From fund raising (“Don’t forget to ‘make The Ask'”) to age old wisdom (“You get what you ask for”), it sounds like Tess learned a huge lesson this weekend. As did I. Thanks!

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