Take a hot bath with your goggles on

Tessie_in_hot_bath2 It was a short, but memorable trip to Tybee Island. Cold ocean water, cool breezes, an Easter egg hunt in the sand. Bike riding all over the island. Treks up the 178 stairs to the top of the lighthouse. Homemade ice cream at the appropriately named "Sugar Shack." Tybee_salad_2 Kite flying. Bunk beds! Riding bikes in the surf, then racing home to jump into a hot tub to thwart the double pneumonia that surely would result from such cold. Building sand castles. Being buried in the sand up to your neck. Playgrounds! Evenings of card games. Movies. Chips and Salsa. Cotton candy! Even salads that spell out "Tybee" in red pepper. Whew, a lot in a very few days.

"We did so many things this weekend! What did you like best about the beach?" I asked Tess on the drive home. "The hot baths," she said cheerfully, without hesitation. "Those hot baths were FANTASTIC!"

Tessie_in_sandTessie_with_tybee I looked over at Mr Brilliant, smiling as he navigated the five-hour drive home that became a nine-hour drive because of construction. Emma was passed out in the back seat, the sun having done her in. The dog, Blue, was chewing a bone in the back and farting at will, and Tess was smiling a big smile as she continued her exposition of the merits of hot baths.

Tessie_in_surf "We drove five hours for a hot bath? Paying eight jillion dollars a gallon for gasoline?" I said to Mr Brilliant after Tess got distracted by a large shiny truck.

"Yep," he said. "We sure did. Worth every mile."

And so it was. A hot bath in one context (home, boring, predecessor to the dreaded bedtime) is different in another context (beach, necessary to raise the body temperature, in the middle of the afternoon, in goggles).

Tessie_biking_in_surfHot baths mean more when they are in contrast to freezing in wet clothes after a bike ride from the cold, cold beach. They just mean more. And while we spend a lot of time avoiding the cold, cold ocean and that cold, cold ride in wet clothes, it’s the only thing that makes that hot bath so incredibly special.

We know it is the small things in life that make it worth living. We all know that. It’s the small grape, the bowl of cheerios, not the Official Edict or Big Event. And yet, it’s so hard to remember that, when we are measured in big ways, not small ones. It is so hard to remember; we forget it every single day.

37days Do it Now Challenge

Tessie_in_hot_bath3 Ride your bike straight into the cold water–take a risk, get messy, explore, tire yourself out. Then take a nice, long, warm bath. Pop some floaty toys in the tub with you, suction cup some goggles on your face and go exploring. Soak, soak.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

4 comments to " Take a hot bath with your goggles on "
  • Awesome post! I am touched and tickled and moved to find more small moments to savor and treasure.

  • It’s my firm belief that a hot bath and a book can cure almost anything. A glass of wine never hurts either.

    Sounds like Tess knows that too. Except for the wine part, of course.

  • Kim

    Love this!

    While not one to ever justify war (of course), this quote excerpt below is one I’ve always savored — and it’s one you prompted me to think about today, Patti. I used to pull it out and read it during difficult times, remembering how challenges make the joys so much sweeter….

    Keats, from Endymion II

    But this is human life: the war, the deeds,
    The disappointment, the anxiety,
    Imagination’s struggles, far and nigh,
    All human; bearing in themselves this good,
    That they are still the air, the subtle food,
    To make us feel existence….

  • Sally

    We’re just back from four days camping…in tents…in 40-degree weather…on Cape Cod. Worth it for the little boy in the back of the car, talking to himself, asking, “What do you want? Green beans, applesauce, green beans…”

    We could have used a hot bath up there.

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